a crucible of love

HEAT players often liken the game to (verbal) BDSM done extraordinarily well. We understand the comparison.

As with BDSM, HEAT provides a welcoming and deeply approving space for our darkness.

As happens in BDSM, we take great care to create a beautifully safe container.

As happens in BDSM, HEAT players may inflict and receive incredibly artful and lovingly crafted blows with the sacred intention of inducing searingly pleasurable healing.

And thus, like BDSM, HEAT can be quite high-sensation...and precisely for all of these reasons...and, again, like BDSM done really, really well: HEAT offers transformative expansion and empowerment.

HEAT is a niche game designed for those who want to play solo; for those who want to play in their romantic or nonromantic partnerships; and for those who want to play in their close communities that value pleasure, intimacy and emotional intellgence. It is our hope that the humans within all of these categories and containers have held themselves and, as applicable, each other, and have built trust and vulnerability over time.

We desire to keep HEAT's energy unpasteurized, which is how it came to us, and we seek to nurture its intuitive intelligence, highly adaptive potency, and wild, wild sweetness.

We are willing, of course, to make adaptations for all of our dearly valued HEAT players as is helpful.

"Leslie and Liz have created such an amazing and unexpected twist to the process of helping someone see just wtf they are doing to themselves. Inner critic? Inner bully? No self compassion? Your self-loathing parts are in for a big treat with their HEAT. And you’ll laugh throughout too. So hot."

Dana H.

Private games

Private HEAT games offer the opportunity for truly deep healing.

In private games, Receivers get to play for three rounds instead of one. (Receivers play for one round in our public games.) The three-round game structure is how Liz and Leslie developed HEAT, and it is quite potent.

Private games can be played solo or in groups of two or more.

Private games also offer the option of the Sacrament of HEAT.

The Sacrament of HEAT

After uncovering the thought that is causing you the most pain or stuckness in Heat, you may choose to deepen your self-forgiveness, self-love, absolution, and unconditional approval through the Sacrament of Heat.

The Sacrament of Heat consists of a series of questions designed to bring the Receiver and their Giver into even deeper resonance with the content stroked during the Heat Game.

In the asking and answering of these questions, The Sacrament of Heat becomes a ritually enacted natural psychedelic experience with your eternal divine that offers lasting and radical freedom from your deepest pain…via deep, magical communion with it.

Sounds heady, maybe.

But the Sacrament is full-body seeing--seeing with our whole bodies our own and each other’s divinity...and seeing, full-body-knowing, true gnosis, that everyone’s deepest flaws and wounds are indeed their greatest gifts.

Private Game Pricing

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